Navigating Tough Love and Doubts as an Indie Filmmaker

Indie Filmmakers: This Might Sound Harsh But…

If you’re fortunate, you’ll have a few people around you who support and encourage you as you embark on making your film—even if it’s without a budget. You should be very appreciative of their help. However, you should also expect that some people may not be as supportive for various reasons.

1. Understanding Tough Love

Much of the concern from others, particularly from loved ones, may come from a place of tough love. They might try to deter you because they don’t want to see you face difficult challenges or take difficult paths. While their concern is understandable and heartfelt, it’s important to recognise that their reactions often reflect their own fears and anxieties.

2. Avoiding Influence from Other’s Fears

It’s easy for other people’s fears to influence your own, leading you to question or even abandon your plans just to make someone else happy. You might find yourself constantly trying to convince them of your reasons for pursuing this path. However, it’s worth considering whether advice from those who lack experience in similar ventures (making a film) is truly beneficial.

3. Focusing on Your Own Goals

Ultimately, it won’t be those individuals who lose sleep over any regrets you may have from not pursuing your goals, such as making your film. It’s crucial to focus on your own aspirations and not let the doubts or fears of others derail your plans.

Final Thoughts: While support from others is valuable, it’s also important to understand that not everyone will be supportive. Recognise their concerns for what they are, and stay focused on your own goals and aspirations.



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